How to Reclaim that Dating Spark in Your Relationship...
The take-away here is that you already hold the secret weapon for once again having a close, loving, emotionally-fulfilling connection with your man - and you can soon feel like you're dating him all over again.
You just have to put that secret weapon to work, starting RIGHT NOW and get melt your man's heart..
It doesn't mean that you stop fighting - that's completely unrealistic.
What it means is that the next time you DO get in a fight, keep in mind the concept of outweighing a handful of negatives with a barrel full of positives.
In fact, I challenge the couples I counsel to aim for the Rule of Six: for every negative interaction you have with your man, you have to override it with at least six positive interactions.
It's like money in the love bank.
When the overwhelming majority of your interactions are positive ones, the smaller number of negative interactions isn't powerful enough to take down your relationship.
Positive interactions build a relationship fortress, and they're your secret weapon for creating emotional intimacy between you and your man.
And that will lay the groundwork for developing a deeply fulfilling, blissful relationship that will flourish for decades to come.