Imagine the WORST argument you've ever had with your man.
You're yelling, he's yelling...you're crying...he doesn't even seem to care.
He retreats to the garage or turns on the TV, you don't speak for days, and any look from either of you feels like a poison dart straight to the heart.
You may have thought, "We're getting close to the end of what was once a promising, loving relationship."
Instead of living in the love boat...your relationship feels more like it's trapped in the "kill or be killed" hunger games.
How can a relationship possibly survive with this type of conflict?
Believe it or not it can, and I am going to show you how in this article.
Why Fighting Can Actually be Good...
Now, if you're like most people...you think fighting with your man is bad...bordering-on-evil bad.
Well, that's not necessarily the case.
Fighting is actually NOT the number one cause - or even a predictor - of relationship failure.
Not even close.
Actually, fighting can stimulate positive change in a relationship assuming there isn't a mix of psychological warfare, back-stabbing and needless put-downs added to the fight.
Researchers were curious why some couples could fight and then within hours be right back in each other's arms again, seemingly HAPPIER than before they fought, while other couples kept growing closer...to divorce court!
Going into the study, the researchers believed that the words "I'm sorry," we're the key to effective relationship repair.
But after analyzing more than 600 couples over a 14-year stretch, the researches were stunned to find out that they were wrong.
They found that, while almost all couples apologized, only a percentage of them effectively repaired the relationship after the argument.
There was something else going on...something the researchers NEVER expected.
What These Researches Found Left Them Stunned...
It wasn't what the couple was actually saying or doing DURING or immediately after the fight itself...the key was in what the couple was doing the days, weeks, months and years before and after their fights.
After analyzing couples who stay out of divorce court, these researchers realized that for every negative event, the couple had at least 5 POSITIVE events.
That was their secret weapon.
We're not talking big deals here like a weekend away to the tropics or a piece of jewelry or flowers every time there's a big fight... just simple little things, such as...
* A little kiss good morning...
* A long hug and sign of affection when you return home...
* A compliment about your appearance...
* A love note...
* A kind word...
* A thoughtful gesture...
In other words, it's the "little things" that actually make a HUGE difference.
The little deposits you make into the love bank on a day-to-day basis overwhelm any withdrawals that are made when you have the periodic all-out-war type of fights.
And that's how those at-each-other's-throat couples can seem like they're on the verge of breaking up one day, and then appear to be deeply in love as if they are newly dating the next day-all because they're using that secret weapon against all of the negativity.
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